For some reason I never did a follow up post to the post about Kyle but here is a quick recap. He did end up texting me that night & asked me out on a double date to go ice skating with him & his friend. Long story short, it was super fun & it was awesome talking to him after so long. We had a really good time & he texted me that night making sure I got home safely & thanked me for the night. But I haven't talked to him since. I kinda of gave up on him since it's been a month now since that night. Now to my actual post. Enjoy!
I've been meaning to write a post for the past 2 weeks but I'm glad I didn't because this post is going to be so much better than the ones I was going to write (I hope). If you follow me on Twitter you probably know for the most part what has been happening, but now you can get all the juicy details. If you don't follow me on Twitter, then what you don't know is that Tyler texted me 2 weeks ago.
Yes, the very infamous Tyler. The last time I had talked to him was thanksgiving. Ever since moving to Utah, I have spent countless minutes (probably hours) thinking about texting him. I had also posted many things on FB about me being in Utah hoping he would see it. I kinda gave up on him reaching out to me about 3 weeks after being here. But I still thought about what things would be like if we got in contact. Would he want to actually hang out this time? Would I just become a girl he would make out with once in a while? Whatever it would be, I didn't care. I just wanted to know. I wanted to see him.
So when he texted me out of nowhere, can you imagine my shock/excitement? He had said
"So you live in Utah now??" Score! My plan worked. It took a lot longer than I expected him to catch on, but better late than never. We texted for the remainder of the day. Talking about why I'm here, school, work, etc. He asked what I was doing that weekend & I said I worked Saturday night & then he asked if I had plans Friday night, which to I replied that I was free that night. So he asked if we could hang out. WELL OF COURSE. Can we talk about how I had been waiting for this for the past 2 months?! After talking for a couple hours, the conversation died. And then the next 2 days seemed to drag on.
Then it was Friday. & I was really nervous. This time was different than the past 2 times for 2 different reasons. 1) The past 2 times were spontaneous. I had no time to think about it. This time I had time to think about what was going to happen. Which leads me to 2) I didn't know what to expect. For the first time, I wasn't sure if all we were going to do is make out. This was planned. He actually asked to hang out.
So Friday went on. & then Friday ended. Without any word from Tyler. To say I was disappointed would be an understatement. I woke up Saturday not sad, but mad. Luckily I had work that day to get my mind off of him. I got off work that night to a text from Tyler.
Now I'm just going to write out the conversations we have had the past 2 weeks, & maybe you can figure out the game he has been playing with me.
Saturday
4:30 p.m. "Shoot, I'm sorry, I totally forgot about last night. You have work tonight?"
9:30 p.m. "Yeah. I'm just now getting off."
10:30 p.m. "Dang well is it too late?"
10:40 p.m. "Nah it's only 10:40."
11:30 p.m. "Well I wok at 11 tomorrow morning so I'm not sure."
11:50 p.m. " Yeah I don't think tonight will work :("
Sunday
10:45 a.m. "I'm sure we can figure out another time :)"
***notice the days & times***
*Tuesday
2:15 A.M. "Yeah we need to hang out soon :)"
10:30 a.m. "I agree! When are you thinking?"
*Thursday
11:00 p.m. "Maybe we could hang out tonight? But it might have to be kinda late..."
11:15 p.m. "I'm actually staying at a friends tonight & she lives kinda far from you."
11:50 p.m. "Oh cool. Let's try from tomorrow then :)"
Friday
12:40 p.m. "Hoping today actually works :)"
*Monday
12:45 a.m. "Hey :)"
I will stop there. At this point, I am so over this game he is playing. Not only does he wait 2 days to reply, he doesn't text me til 11 p.m. or later. So now I obviously know what he wants. At least one of my questions has been answered. He doesn't actually want to hang out with me. You want to know the craziest thing? I STILL wanted to see him. Even thought I knew that he was being a huge jerk to me by this little game he has been playing, I wanted to see him. & not so much that I wanted to, I NEEDED to. I needed to get him out of my system. But the only way to do that was to see him.
So for some reason I woke up Monday at around 3 a.m. to see the text from Tyler. I figured he had gone to bed by then so I texted him back at 3:30 saying "Hey! How have we not hung out yet?"
To my surprise, he texted back within 10 minutes.
"Well I was hoping we could tonight."
"Wish I would have seen your text earlier."
" So come now ;)"
I had to take the opportunity. I was so tired of this game, I was willing to sneak out of my house at 4 a.m. to see him. So that's what I did.
I had been talking to my friends about the whole situation & they thought it would be a bad idea if I saw him again. They said that I would just fall for him all over again. Boy, could they have been more wrong. I left his house feeling better than I have in a long time. Not only because we had another great make out session, but because I finally felt like I was done with him. I didn't leave feeling like I wanted to see him. A big part of this was because I finally know what kind of guy he is. It had always been a mystery. I had always thought that maybe we only would make out because we only had a limited amount of time til one of us left back to Idaho/Utah. But now that we both live in the same state & yet nothing has changed, it's not a mystery anymore.
Will I see him again? I honestly don't know. I for sure won't be the one texting him. So it's really all up to him. Will I take his offer to make out again at 4 a.m.? Probably not. Maybe at 11 p.m. I will. Now that I don't have feelings for him anymore, I feel like I could make out with him strictly as a NCMO just for the fun of it. Because after all, the one thing that hasn't changed between us is our amazing sexual chemistry.
So yeah, I think I finally closed the Tyler chapter in my life. He may make an appearance in the next couple chapters, he may not. Only time will tell.
